i miss you

i miss the highschool me.

i was doing my aegis write-up and for input, i decided to take a look at my friendster testimonials and comments and messages. yun ang highschool e, friendster. aminin mo man o hindi, alam mong karamihan ng mga friends mo sa friendster ay nakilala mo nung highschool ka. after viewing my friendster profile, i shifted to my multiply account and my ym list. i looked at the pictures and blogs i uploaded, and then i asked a few of the people in my ym list who i am to them. i was shocked at the differences (and similarities, but for the most part the differences) of how people viewed me then and now.

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..then..
i was the leader. people looked to me for direction, guidance, advice and stuff. i loved the attention, and i loved the distinction. the world could have melted and i still would've smiled after reading those testimonials. responsible, god-fearing, trusted friend, smart, creative, easy to talk to, at the top of his batch, president of the student government, sweet(?), romantic(?). it was a list of my credentials then.

..now..
who the fuck am i now? not that im complaining. but who i am now is a far cry from who i was then. using the big fish analogy, highschool was a pond, really. now that im in the sea, hell, i aint so big anymore. but to tell the truth, this was what i was wishing for after hs graduation. to blend in, to NOT be expected of anything, to NOT be at the top, to NOT be the go-to-guy. as much as i loved the attention then, i guess i just got so full of it. and ateneo gave me the satisfaction. all i am now is one of those unpredictable guys. as a friend mentioned, i defy stereotypes. a good example of "dont judge a book by its cover", daw. akala ng karamihan ako yung tipong gago, C-average person na walang pakialam sa studies. yung tamad sa grupo, yung pa-easy easy lang, yung asa lang ng asa sa iba. dahil lagi akong nakangiti, nagyoyosi, umiinom kada linggo, minsan may balbas, labas ng labas, nagccram 5minutes bago magklase. hindi ako yun, tsong. nagkakamali ka.

..anyway..
the thing that remained constant was how people described me as the funny man. the entertainer. and i agree, i am that person. i love to make people smile and laugh and giggle. if the people around me are happy, then i'm happy. no questions asked.

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honestly, i don't know how i feel about the change in me. i'm not sure if i'm happy and contented that i've finally blended with the crowd, or if i'm sad and itching for that limelight to shine on me and separate me from the crowd, again. all i know is i miss the highschool me.